The secret of good sexual relationship.


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No body in this world wants problems in any aspects of life.The same applied in a sexual relationship man strive to have the good and cool relationship with their partners.Therefore  it is the man who is intellectual, full of knowledge knowledge being different from wisdom the man who has schemes, who wants to save the world, who is full of intellectual, and mentally fully, it is he who is caught up in sex. Because his life is shallow, his heart empty, sex becomes important and that is what is happening in the present civilization.

We have over cultivated our intellect, and the mind is caught in its own creations as the radio, the motorcar, the mechanized amusements, the technical knowledge, and the various addictions the mind indulges in. When such a mind is caught, there is only one release for it, which is sex. Sirs, look at what is happening within each one of us, don’t look at somebody else.

Examine your own life and you will see how you are caught in this problem, how extraordinarily empty your life is. What is your life, sirs? Bright, arid, empty, dull, weary, is it not? You go to your offices, do your jobs, repeat your mantras, perform your bids.When you are in the office, you are subjugated, dull, you have to follow a routine; you have become mechanical in your religion; it is mere acceptance of authority.

So, religiously, in the world of business, in your education, in your daily life, what is actually happening? There is no creative state of being, is there? You are not happy, you are not vital, you are not joyous. Intellectually, religiously, economically, socially, politically, you are dull, regimented, are you not? This regimentation is the result of your own fears, your own hopes, your own frustrations; and since for a human being so caught there is no release, naturally he looks to sex for a release there he can indulge himself, there he can seek happiness.

So, sex becomes automatic, habitual, routine, and that also becomes a dulling, a vicious process. That is your life, actually, if you look at it, if you don’t try to dodge it, if you don’t try to excuse it. The actual fact is, you are not creative. You may have babies,innumerable babies, but that is not creative action, that is an accidental action of existence.

So, a mind that is not alert, vital, a heart that is not affectionate, full, how can it be creative? And not being creative, you seek stimulation through sex, through amusement, cinemas, theaters, through watching others play while you remain a spectator; others paint the scene or dance, and you yourself are but an observer. That is not creation. Similarly, so many books are printed in the world because you merely read. You are not the creator.

Where there is no creation, the only release is through sex, and then you make your wife or husband the prostitute. Sirs, you have no idea of the implications, the wickedness, the cruelty of all this. I know you are uncomfortable. You are not thinking it out. You are shutting your mind, and therefore sex has become an immense problem in modern civilization either promiscuity, or the mechanical habit of sexual release in marriage.

Sex will remain a problem as long as there is no creative state of being. You may use birth control, you may adopt various practices, but you are not free of sex. Sublimation is not freedom, suppression is not freedom, control is not freedom. There is freedom only when there is affection, when there is love. Love is pure, and when that is missing, your trying to become pure through the sublimation of sex is mere stupidity.

The factor that purifies is love, not your  desire to be pure. A man who loves is pure, though he may be sexual; and without love, sex is what it is now in your lives a routine, an ugly process, a thing to be avoided, ignored, done away with.Through this nothing impossible to have good sexual relationship.This is how it achieved.